Wednesday, September 14, 2011

First Day of School



September 6, 2011

First Day of "School"


He looked soooo cute!! And was excited to talk about going to school... I wasn't sure what he would think once he actually got there and especially after I left him there. But he did great! He has had so much fun and loves going! He talks about his teacher Mrs. Ross all the time. And it is really cute because he says "School House" not just school.... I think he must have gotten that from his Richard Scary's Great Big Schoolhouse Book. One of my favorites as a kid- he loves it too.





The Missing Child



Hmmm..... where could that Caelan boy be?? I don't see him anywhere! Why is the shower curtain all lumpy like that on top of the changing table? Oh! It's our silly boy!


(PS.... sorry for the rough ending!)

Friday, September 9, 2011

My Little Baseball Player!



I've always been a baseball fan.... not like a huge hard-core fan who keeps up with all the games and teams... I just enjoy the sport itself, going to games, playing softball.... so when Caelan pointed out a "bay-ball bat and bay-ball" in the store one day, I was excited. I had an old t-stand in the garage and finally set it up one day a few weeks ago in the back yard. He had a blast and did great!!

Thursday, September 8, 2011

Bruce

BRUCE

aka: Brucie, Bwuce


**before I start this.... NO, there is nothing wrong with Bruce and nothing has happened to him!



We have three cats. Ries.... rescued at the age of 4 weeks and bottle fed, named after our old Fire Lieutenant and friend Jon Ries. She is 9 1/2 years old now. (wow... haven't thought about how old she has gotten until right this second). Super smart and the only girl. Bruce was our first boy and we adopted him about 6 months after we got Ries. He was found abandoned in a parking lot, near death, and was nursed back to health by the vet. He already had his name when we got him. Then we got Dillon about 6 months after that and he is our second boy.... he is an orange and white, very thick (and plump) cat who was feral for several months before being rescued by Alley Cat Allies in the DC area. Dillon is extremely shy but seriously the sweetest cat in the world.


So back to Bruce.... when I first saw him, I immediately loved him. His hair was sticking out in every direction.... and he was not very graceful- he bonked his head while he was running around the room. I can relate to this cat!! So home with me he went!



We have always referred to Bruce as being... "Not as smart or graceful as Ries" because we didn't want to hurt his feelings by simply calling him a klutz or saying he is dumb. He tries really hard to be a brave kitty, too. He also has a jealous streak.... particularly when it comes to where I give my attention. He thinks that I am HIS mommy and his mommy ONLY. If he sees me petting one of the other cats or giving them attention, he will wait til I'm not looking and then bite the daylights out of the other cat. Hmmm... maybe not so dumb after all, huh? On that note, he can also be a bit of a bully.... he will push the other two around a bit. He wears a bell on his collar... he thinks it is because he is super special and "gets to wear" a bell. In reality, the bell is there so the other cats can hear him coming. Yep.


Bruce is also absolutely BEAUTIFUL. Turns out, this tossed-into-a-parking-lot-near-a-dumpster cat is part Maine Coon. Purebred Maine Coons carry a pretty hefty price. We paid fifty bucks in adoption fees. They are often referred to as the "Gentle Giants" of cats because they are so big yet have such a sweet and gentle nature. There could not be truer words about Bruce....


When Caelan came along, I was worried about the cats' reactions. I figured Ries would be the "caretaker" of the three.... that she would express concern over this baby. Dillon I knew would simply adjust. Bruce, I was intensely concerned about. I knew about his jealous streak.... what if tried to hurt the baby? I knew about his other issues... what if he stressed out and started peeing all over the house? Ugh.



So we brought Caelan home... I was so far off in my assessment. I was sitting in the recliner holding Caelan. Brucie jumped up onto the arm of the chair and leaned over to check out what I was holding. Bruce sniffed Caelan's head, every inch of it. Then he very slowly, very gently, reached his paw over and placed it so gently on Caelan's head. The look on Bruce's face was so sweet. And he has made every single step with Caelan since then. He showed protectiveness over Caelan from day one- when Caelan was a baby and would cry, Bruce would be sitting there meowing at me and I would literally be tripping over him as "we" had to go check on the baby.



Caelan LOVES Bruce. They have the sweetest relationship. He plays peekaboo and hide-and-seek with him, Caelan pulls Bruce into his cardboard house with him, wants to show him things and share with him, and likes to brush him. And being a little kid.... Caelan pulls poor Brucie's tail, drags him around, lays on top of him (bear in mind Caelan now weighs 40 pounds) and uses Bruce's fur as "handles" to "help" Bruce go where Caelan wants him to go. And Bruce STILL makes every step with Caelan.



Bruce has never once nipped at Caelan or shown the slightest twitch toward scratching or harming Caelan in any way. He has wimpered a time or two as Caelan lays on him or tugs a bit much, but never a move more than that. Bruce has the option of staying away from Caelan. There are plenty of places in the house that he can go to get away. But he doesn't. He chooses to stay right alongside Caelan.


Caelan refers to Bruce by his name, "Bwuce"..... he refers to Ries and Dillon as "cats." If Caelan has a book or sees pictures of random cats, he refers to them all as cats.... unless there is one that looks like Bruce, then he gets excited and says "There's Bwuce!" Caelan always says Goodnight to Bruce. ("goodnight bwuce") before going into his room each night. He greets him in the morning as well. I love to watch these two together. And I cannot wait to see how they grow closer over time. There is nothing like the love of a pet. Especially one like Brucie.



Below are just a handful of pictures of these two.... as I looked over a couple of years worth of snapshots, I realized that if Caelan is not interacting directly with Bruce, Bruce is still somewhere very near his precious boy Caelan. And because of that.... Bruce earned his very own, very lengthy post.


Christmas 2009, Bruce with Caelan as he checks out what Santa brought

Caelan and Brucie sharing a balloon... they both love balloons!

Caelan snuggling with Bruce

...... more loving on Bruce

and since we are always telling Caelan to "stop laying on top of Bruce" Caelan has started pulling Bruce on top of him instead.... and of course, Bruce just goes with the flow!

Thank you Bruce for being so awesome to our boy...
and thank you God for blessing us with this amazing, throw-away cat. We pray for many more years with him!!

Friday, September 2, 2011

Here and Now

Hello Blog Readers!
I miss blogging.... I really do! I had been so far behind and I felt like I had to "update" things before I started trying to keep current. Which is why there were pictures posted and titled from months before.... and trying to sort through a year's worth of pictures and try to "update" things was just overwhelming. And then more and more time kept passing... it became an endless cycle.

Sooooo...... I decided that instead of falling more and more behind- which I finally realized is also robbing people of the present..... that I will start again, Here and Now. Where we are in life today. And if I go back in time occasionally that's fine.

I have access to all of our photos again (I didn't for about the past six months) and will start making a concerted effort to blog more regularly. It may not always be about Caelan and it may not always have pictures with it... but I will post.

For my mom. For my sisters. For ALL of my family. For Caelan's birthfamily. For our friends. For random strangers who stumble upon us. For me.

In the meantime, here are links to two Face Book photo albums that I just uploaded the past couple of days.... hopefully it will work!

Caelan's 3rd Birthday http://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.2126382312649.2109927.1038643382&l=aca4fcf0d4&type=1


Greenwood, MS with my sisters and the boys http://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.2125263684684.2109882.1038643382&l=be9bd2b719&type=1

Sleder's in TC to see Brent Burns: http://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.2119361737139.2109652.1038643382&l=aea23395b7&type=1


And since I have figured out how to do this!! I will add some more older ones!

Random pics of Caelan http://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.1514875065350.2070745.1038643382&l=bc19fa85cb&type=1

LAST year's Pumpkin Patch visit: http://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.1514796903396.2070739.1038643382&l=c29b32eda6&type=1

LAST year's Corn Maize visit with the Ansorges: http://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.1514826344132.2070742.1038643382&l=81268fc33e&type=1

And finally.... LAST Halloween.... http://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.1529906681131.2071840.1038643382&l=85551799c6&type=1

And actually... that's about all I even have on Facebook...
sooo... Here we are, NOW!!!


Sunday, November 14, 2010

October 2009- Brittani and Wanda

This is Brittani- she and Wanda came down for that weekend and stayed for just the two days. Brittani had just turned 5 a month before they came down. I love these pictures of her- she looks so much like Rip. She had soooo much fun on the beach!!
The next picture shows her "ready" to go to the beach- complete with matching purple fuzzy purse and hat, and pink fuzzy shoes! She was so funny!
I taught her how to stomp into the ocean- boxing the waves and stomping on them! Then we would hold hands and wait for the waves to come so she could JUMP over them! I remember doing that as a kid- so I had to make sure she has that memory too!

We went out one night- Brittani was sooo tired from all the fun and curled into Wanda and zonked out! I love this one of them.
**** Please pray for Brittani!!! After Rip died, Brittani became a ward of the state since Wanda didn't have "official custody" of her (even though she has raised her since NICU!!). The courts have recently, and very unexpectedly given custody to Catherine- this is a reaalllyy reeallly bad situation! Wanda didn't get to say good-bye; she does not know if or when she will see B again. She is appealing and fighting for custody. We are all heartbroken, devastated. So please, pray for Brittani and Wanda!!!


Thursday, July 22, 2010

October 2009- Random Pix

He "helped" unpack...


Playing under the patio table, peeking through the chairs~




That is the sweeetest, cutest little boy in the whole entire world!!

October 2009- Sand









Caelan LOVED playing in the sand! And obviously tasting it.

October 2009- Beach










Caelan has been to the beach a couple of times up here but the beaches here are so different- he has never been to the "beach" beach... to the Gulf. The water was a bit cool- particularly because it was windy from time to time. But I'm thinking he liked it!

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

October 2009- Aunt Janie


Janie was reading to one of the boys.... then within seconds all three of them were gathered around her for some super Aunt Janie time.
Hmmmm..... what could make this boy start running, laughing his head off, shoulders all crunched up around his neck???
Aunt JANIEEE!!!!!
This was sooooo cute!! Caelan had just started walking about a week and a half before we went down in October... he still had the "Frankenstein" walk and of was just starting to run. Janie was chasing him all around the playground saying "I'm gonna getcha!" He laughed sooo hard!!
(We have video of it that is really great- we all laugh watching it, but I don't know how to post it)

October 2009- Mulch







I often refer to him as the "relocater" because he loves to pick up stuff (anything) and move it from one place to another. So it didn't surprise us in the least to see Caelan go sit in the mulch area and play in it! He would pick up handfuls at a time and toss it.... and then he would take it over to the edge and toss it into the grassy area.